99: Feeling Shame When You Don't Reach Your Goals
As you evolve as a person or entrepreneur, a certain kind of shame can overcome you. Many of my clients have dealt with what I call progress or goal shame. What is it, and how do you know if you experience it? In this episode, I talk about shame related to goal setting, reveal the signs that show whether or not you have it, share my thoughts on sharing your goals with others, and more!
In Today’s Episode We Discuss:
4:15 - Where goal shame originates from and how I see it in my clients
8:13 - How to know if you suffer from progress or goal shame
12:34 - What I encourage you to do when tempted to change or quit your goal
17:41 - Beware of this when you initially set a goal
20:47 - The attitude I encourage you to adopt about your goals
24:00 - To share or not to share? Why my opinion goes against conventional wisdom
30:08 - Why some shame around goals is unavoidable and how not to indulge in or succumb to it
32:37 - What shame in a goal’s achievement looks like
37:13 - What to do when doubts about your goal creep in subconsciously
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