222: How to Use "Let Them Theory" to Reclaim Control as a Business Owner
Ever feel like you get caught in an emotional whirlwind because of other people's actions or behaviors? Perhaps it left you feeling drained and frustrated as a result.
Instead of feeling victimized or trying to manipulate external forces, you can reclaim your power and ownership. With the “Let Them Theory,” a recent Mel Robbins book (inspired by Cassie Phillips’ poem and viral movement), let’s flip the script so you can take back control by shifting your focus inward.
In this episode of She Thinks Big, you’ll learn how to use the “Let Them” theory to shift into “Let Me” energy with actionable strategies that help you prioritize yourself and your well-being. I’ll teach you five ways you can apply this theory in your business–from navigating team dynamics and clients to dealing with setbacks and criticism.
What’s Covered in This Episode on Let Them Theory
4:43 - The foundation of the “Let Them Theory” and the piece that puts you in the driver’s seat
7:17 - How shifting to “Let Me” energy allows you to step into ownership
9:08 - How this theory helps you lead your team without micromanaging
11:15 - How “Let Them” and “Let Me” can help you with client relationships
12:17 - How this theory can impact your management expectations and criticism response
14:34 - How you can apply “Let Them” and “Let Me” when handling setbacks and business challenges
15:34 - How this theory allows you to prioritize yourself as a business owner
16:42 - What to do this week if you start spiraling over what someone else is doing
Mentioned In How to Use "Let Them Theory" to Reclaim Control as a Business Owner
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She Thinks Big by Andrea Liebross
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Quotes from the Episode
“You cannot control other people. But you and I can control ourselves, and that is where the magic happens.” - Andrea Liebross
“If ‘Let Them’ is about releasing control, then ‘Let Me’ is about stepping into ownership.” - Andrea Liebross
“No matter how perfect you or I try to be, someone will always have an opinion. Let them have it, and you and I keep moving forward.” - Andrea Liebross
Links to other episodes
50: How to Regain Control of Your Life When You Can’t Catch a Break
43: How to Upgrade Your Life and Business & Claim Your Seat with Kelly Kichler
40: How to Work Through Emotions
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